POSITIVE ATTITUDES

                                                   

                                             

POSITIVE ATTITUDES. GOOD WORDS FROM GOOD PEOPLE............................

 ***  BEING NON-JUDGEMENTAL;-
When something or someone annoys you, you analyse  your own feeling, instead of blaming others. Thus, you will not say,"My friend hurt me by her behaviour, " Why did I feel hurt and upset by my friend's behaviour ? "
 *** CULTIVATING THE SPIRIT OF ACCEPTANCE;- This involves overcoming selfish expectations and demands. We expect certain things from our parents, spouse, children and friends When our expectations are not met, frustration and unhappiness follow. Fathers want their sons to become Doctors or Engineers, mothers expect their daughters to get married and 'settle down; when the children wish to pursue their own dreams and aspirations, the poor parents are unhappy..
*** DEVELOPING OPTIMISM:- This includes the practice of positive thinking, as well as belief in ourselves and our capacity to change for the better. As philosophers and sages tell us again and again, "This too, shall pass away". Even the worst of the conditions will change, sooner or later.
*** BEING GENEROUS IN THOUGHT ;- Giving other people the benefit of doubt; rejoicing in others' happiness and success. This way, others prosperity and success will not add to our misery.
*** DEVELOPING A SENSE OF MATURITY: This will enable us to view ourselves and our life with dipassion and detachment,and not give into negative emotions.

###    ALL WE REQUIRE ARE THE WINGS GOD HAS GIVEN US THE WINGS OF PATIENCE AND FAITH   .####    

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